Please forgive me for abandoning my own blog.
Well, today, I have some afterthought. Yes, as usual, my own afterthought. It is literally pure from my mind. No one forces me to write about this afterthought.
There is only one way to avoid criticism: do nothing, say nothing, and be nothing (Aristotle).
In my opinion, we live in this world with 7.6 billion people (source: http://www.worldometers.info). What do you expect? Do you think that you live in your own world with the people that you expect to behave?
Wake up, girl/boy..!!
You do not live in your dreams. You do not live in your own world. You might create your own world.
But, people, as a human being, we need each other. We need people to survive.
Once, someone said to me that she/he does not like me.
So what should I do?
First, I would like to listen to them what they do not like about me. Because I do admit that sometimes I might hurt other people. I would not know if there is no one said to me. Honestly, I would say many thanks to that person. Why? Because it means that she/he still cares about me and want me to become a better person. I have ever told someone that I am not a shaman. I would not know what other people's mind if they do not tell me. I really open-minded to criticism especially in a good way. So please, just tell me.Well, in my opinion, you are selfish if you just want people to understand you. Why not mutual understanding? Respect each other? If you respect me, of course, I will have some respect for you, too.
One thing, I also dislike is to blame the condition or situation. As you get older, you should be more mature. You might have some experience that other people need not face. But, does it mean that you could do anything and ask people to understand you while you do not respect them? Do you think that people dislike you because of the condition because they are just full of hatred?
In this part, I really suggest you do self-analyze. Is it you or is it something else?
Some people have their own reason to act something. Are you the reason that they do bad things to you? or are they just bunch of crazy people that hate others?
The next part is changing your self into a better person. Not all the criticism is to let you down. Sometimes is to make you become a better person.
Hmmm.. if you do not take the criticism, I think you are just a selfish being.
You want people to understand you while you do not understand other? You want people to accept your bad behaviour while you never try to change?
Wake up girl/boy..
This is real life. If you do not want criticism just do not be one.
*ps: no personal judgement to specific person.