Gossip Girls ~ Marginal Group

No... No.. No.. I'm sorry.. It was not about the TV Series called Gossip Girl that was started by "XOXO Gossip Girl". It was about me and my friends caught up somethings that we missed each other.

It was happen last Sunday, June 30th 2016 (so for someone that had ever said what I was doing every Sunday was meeting him you were totally wrong *****)

Here we are..

From Left to Right: Meili, Mayanti, Ajeng, Me

 It was been a while since we met last year or two year? Well I didn't remember exactly when we last met each other. As you know it was difficult for us to arrange the meeting because we've been separated and sort of busy our selves.

But finally we met!!!! Yeaaaay!

Finally, we could have breakfasting together before we'd been busy again. It was really a long time. I miss you guys. We've been friends since Senior High School (we were classmates and we were the marginal group XD). So here we were the marginal group had a meeting in Bekasi, our planet.

Of course as same as other girls we chatted up, well we were gossip as well.. XD
The funny thing was that we gossip after adzan because we didn't want to ruin our fasting. Silly right. Yeah at least, we gossiped after breakfasting.

I was and am really happy to see you guys. Actually I'm so speechless right now that I couldn't even write how happy I am.
Well, let me just write about the activities we had.

From Left to Right: Ajeng, Mayanti, Meili, Me

The fact was I was the one who caught up the things with them. Because I've been so far from them. Two of them were in the same college (different major) and one of them in other college. So here we were from Senior High School 1 Bekasi to UNPAD, UGM, and UI. But those didn't blocked us to gossiping others. XD
At first, we promised to meet at the avenue at Fish and Co around 4:30 PM. But, unfortunately there was no space for four of us so we had to find another place. And we stranded at Fiesta Steak. The queue for ordering the food was so long but fortunately we got seated and got our order.
Soon after the breakfasting, we were gossiping about our friends, our lives, our loves, and so on. Sorry for bothering the other customer because sometimes we got so excited.

Then after we had a fully stomach, we didn't forget to pray. Just the same with the restaurants the Prayer Room also crowded. Because of I wasn't praying due of girl's period, I was waiting for them outside the Prayer Room. Meanwhile I was waiting, I met other senior high school mates who actually I didn't remember their names (I'm so sorry for forgetting their names).

After a while, We were thirsty and decided to have some drinks. Lucky for us, the places didn't get to full like before (maybe due to praying time). Because of the cafe had only a few seated table, we could choose wherever we wanted to be seated. In addition, we changed the seat three times. Then, we chatted until 8:30 PM because we had some other arrangements.

Well, that was my story.
Of course we do take a wefie... here they are..

From Left to Right: Meili, Mayanti, Ajeng, Me

From Left to Right: Meili, Mayanti, Ajeng, Me

From Right to Left: Ajeng, Me, Mayanti, Meili

I miss you guys.. See you next meeting

Question for you

One thought in my mind.. I've got this thought a few days later but i've been busy since. I wrote this through my mobile phone.

Have you ever questions anything that you dont get the answer yet? Well, that's my situation.. Up until now, I dont get the answer to make me understand.

Do you really need to impose even if he / she doesn't want it anymore?
What do you wish for? Are you that happy to see others suffer? Just because you dont get the happiness you ruin others?

What do you expect to?
You think that what you are doing are right things to do. But the truth is you make some horrible mistake. At that time hate wont grow. But, days by days as you push us to do what you think are rights, the hatred will grow. Sometimes I pity you for what you are doing.

There is a proverb that says sometimes holding on gives you more damage than let it go.

You said that what you are doing is to make the things right. Are you sure? Dont you just think what you are doing is based on your ego? Your selfish?

Can you just let us go? Or are you just a selfish *****? Trust me. Now, I really pity you for what you are doing. You wont ever get what you want. It's already ended since. Just keep holding what you think yours and I will keep what I think mine.

See you next post.
Cause the haters just gonna hate

Shakira - Try Everything

Hello, now I wanna post about a song that I’ve been heard since few days ago.

Well this song is a soundtrack for Zootopia.

Try Everything - Shakira

Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh

I messed up tonight, I lost another fight
I still mess up but I'll just start again
I keep falling down, I keep on hitting the ground
I always get up now to see what's next

Birds don't just fly, they fall down and get up
Nobody learns without getting it wrong

I won't give up, no I won't give in
'Til I reach the end and then I'll start again
No I won't leave, I wanna try everything
I wanna try even though I could fail
I won't give up, no I won't give in
'Til I reach the end and then I'll start again
No, I won't leave, I wanna try everything
I wanna try even though I could fail

Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh
Try everything
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh
Try everything
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh
Try everything
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh

Look how far you've come, you filled your heart with love
Baby you've done enough, take a deep breath
Don't beat yourself up, don't need to run so fast
Sometimes we come last, but we did our best

I won't give up, no I won't give in
'Til I reach the end and then I'll start again
No I won't leave, I wanna try everything
I wanna try even though I could fail
I won't give up, no I won't give in
'Til I reach the end and then I'll start again
No I won't leave, I wanna try everything
I wanna try even though I could fail

I'll keep on making those new mistakes
I'll keep on making them every day
Those new mistakes

Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh
Try everything
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh
Try everything
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh
Try everything
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh

Try everything

Well.. I know I’m not an updated creature. This movie was release last March 2016. Actually I really want to see this movie last March, unfortunately, I don’t have time.

I’ve actually seen this movie since last Sunday but finished it last night.. :D

Today I don’t want to review about the movie (Zootopia), I wanna tell you about this song. The first time I heard this song (such an outdated creature), when Judy left the town and she was listening to music on train.

At the first time I don’t know what the title was. Then, I began searching the song and of course the lyrics. Actually I’m so speechless right now (pardon me for being such an excessive). 

In my opinion we have to try everything that we want. Don’t be afraid of failing. The path may be not as smooth as we think or we planned. However, we have to try or we regret about it later. It’s better if we feel sad because we fail than we regret about the things that we don’t even try it before. At least we’ve tried.

We don’t know whether it was a mistake before we do the mistake right? 

In my opinion, in spite of making less mistakes and being afraid of making mistakes, we can learn from our mistake and we can do even better by learning about our mistake. One exception, don’t do the same mistake many times.

It’s really common that people will judge us. But hey, who cares? We can’t satisfy every single person in this earth.

So..

I won't give up, no I won't give in
'Til I reach the end and then I'll start again
No I won't leave, I wanna try everything
I wanna try even though I could fail

That’s all my opinion.. Thank you.. see you..

Subject to Discuss #1 - Work and Wage -

Well, it's been a long time since last post.

Now, I want to discuss about work and wage. I know these are sensitive issues. Let me give you some picture I got from internet.

What do you think about this posting? Do you agree or not?
We all know that no matter what we need money. For living.

So what do you think about that?
Well, up until now, I've been working for 14 months. It's just a while. I've just graduated in February 2015. I still don't have much experiences.
But I do have my own point of view for this posting.

As a worker, I really do hope for a huge wage. For my living, for my saving, and of course for my future. But as a fresh graduate, what do I wish for? I don't have real experiences working in a company (I do have a working background but I don't work for corporate. It was just a project by my lectures or somewhere else).
Sometimes it's sucks to see some vacancies that require you to have amount experiences and also age. How could I have some experiences if you don't give me a chance to work at some company (as some of company requires amount of experiences)?

Finally, I got my first job. I was know nothing about working in company that I've never been imagined. Here is the story begun. I got a really minimum wage with some works to do. At the first time, I feel just happy af to have a job. I got job!!! Horaaaay!!
Then days by days and months by months. My responsibilities are increased. But sadly, my wage isn't increased. I got promotion but I didn't get a raise. Well, I think it was okay. I didn't mind about it as long as I could study and mastering that field (actually I already mastered it because it was my proficiency).

But thanks to GOD, I moved on from my last job to another one which was and is a better place, a better wage. I was really glad that I could quit from my first job.

Right now, this is my third job. Up until now, I've been working in this corporate for 5 months. And how do I feel?
Well, If you think your college time was a jungle, then working is a wild jungle. You have to work well while you are under pressure. Sometimes your colleagues are a challenges for you too.. Because every human has different behavior, different characters and different point of views. You have to maintain the relationship between your colleagues. Your boss can also be a challenge for you. Sometimes you get the good boss but sometimes you don't get the good guy boss.

Next question, have I ever got a shitty job?
Of course I have got. I've been through the big good guy boss, I've been through bad guy boss, and so on.
I told you on previous paragraph that I've ever been raise (the responsibilities) but I didn't get raise in wage. Just because I was a fresh graduate (yeah, fresh graduate but I do team leader's job). Funny little thing that someone on my previous ever told not to show my abilities and pretended that I know nothing. How could I pretend if it was really my major and my capabilities?

Maybe some of you would think that that wasn't a shitty job. Well when I were in college, I've ever been a SPG (sales promotion girl). I had to tell the customer about the product and persuaded them to buy my product. Sometime I got difficult customer, I've even got flirted by the customer. Hell yeah. Different characters. I have to deal with them.

Okay maybe I didn't get the worst job. But I just want to share that everyone ever got a difficult situation in their office.

Back to topic or back to the posting.
Well, in my opinion, we had to do as well as we can in our jobs. I do agree with the posting that if you have that kind of thought you will never get a promotion. Because you only do a little works. How can other people see what you are capable of if you don't show them? Especially if you are in team work. The good team will help each other do their works to fulfill the tasks, the goals, the aims. Sometimes we are envy for someone who gets a high wage. Sometimes we think that we are the one who deserve that wage. But everyone is different. Maybe you don't have what they have. If we fill our mind with that kind of thoughts we can't do the best. Since, all we think that we are envy to them we can't do the work properly and it will decreased our performance.

Trust me, just do the best at your work because that is your responsibility and people will see what your capable of. Just don't give up. Try your best. Even if sometimes you hate it so much. At least I get a wage to pay the bills, eh?
That's my opinion. Everyone have their own opinion. It is up to you whether you want to agree or disagree to me.

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See you in the next posting.. :)