Day - Afterthought #4

Hey, it's almost the end of October 2020. What have you done so far this year? I know there is a pandemic happened and yet, we don't know when it will end. I live in Indonesia, where the case is increasing day by day. You could check that on your own.

However, I won't talk about what happened in my country, whether about the pandemics or the viral Omnibus Law. I only want to share the thoughts that I have lately. I know it's called Day - Afterthought, but I post it in the evening. Hehehe, I was working this afternoon, that's the reason why I post this in the evening. 

I scrolled the timeline today and saw something.

"Timing is everything"

Meeting you

Meeting you was fate,

Becoming your friend was a choice

But falling in love with you is beyond my control

Haiku #2

Hai!!! This is my second attempt to write about Haiku...

Haiku #1

As you could google it, haiku means traditional Japanese Poetry. It rarely rhymes.
Haiku consists of 3 lines. The first and the last line have 5 syllables, while the second line has 7 syllables.

Day - Afterthought #2

Night - Afterthough #4

Hey there.. Yep, recently I've been updated my blog a lot.

I am who I am
Not what you think I am
Not who you want me to be
I am me
- Brigitte nicole

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Smiling necessary or not

Hi...
I have something to tell you.. It's about smiling. Lately I've begin to moody. I don't know why. But it seems my mood swings easily. I don't mean to become a moody person or else.. However have you ever tired to smile? It's not because you are sad or something else happened. You just tired of smiling. It seems like you fake it a whole time.

Yep, that's what I fell right now.
In mean time, I'm just sick of smiling a whole day. Trust me, It's not that I have a bad day or else.
Actually, this is my default face...
Although, indeed I have a problem and want to pretend that's everything is okay. Why? Why do I need to pretend to be okay? Since sometime I have a lot of things to think that I could not even know what is the matter with me that is the reason that I do not like to smiling.

Lately so many things that I have to re-think, especially for this new year new me (hahaha kidding). But yeah, I just need to re-think about many things.
I hope this year will be a good year for all of us..

See you..

Night - Afterthought #3

Hmmm... Lately, I've had my inspiration at night. After I took a deep shower (nope, only 10 minutes), after a long commute, and so on, and so on, I felt like aha... I got this... Then, here we are...

This is a story of my life... and once again, only my opinion though. You might have other opinions.

Well, I am gonna talk about the quote below...

Is it true? that:

We buy things we don't need with the money we don't have to impress people we don't like?

Night - Afterthought #2

Sometimes it is so nice to have someone you can rely on. You could depend on. Someone you could talk to. Someone you could share your thoughts. Someone you could complain to. Someone who would defend you. It is really so happy to have that someone.

But, is it going to forever? How long will it take until you realized that you could not rely on someone else except yourself? How long will it take that you realized that you are the only one who can defend yourself?

Someone said (you can google it) that

"never depend on others too much. Because someday you will have to walk alone"

Night - Afterthought #1

Here I am. It is been so long since my latest post. I am glad that I could spare my time to think and write. Tbh I really want to post something on my blog, about my trips, my life, my unimportant thing, my thoughts, my works, many things. So yeah... I am really glad about this time.

I feel that lately, I am not grateful enough or less grateful for what I have had, done, and got.
So that is why I want to be more grateful, I should be grateful, I need to be grateful.

Here are some quotes that I found on google. I think you should know..

When a new day begins, dare to smile gratefully.

When there is darkness, dare to be the first to shine a light.

When there is an injustice, dare to be the first to condemn it.

When something seems difficult, dare to do it anyway.

When life seems to beat you down, dare to fight back.

When there seems to be no hope, dare to find some.

When you’re feeling tired, dare to keep going.

When times are tough, dare to be tougher.

When love hurts you, dare to love again.

When someone is hurting, dare to help them heal.

When another is lost, dare to help them find the way.

When a friend falls, dare to be the first to extend a hand.

When you cross paths with another, dare to make them smile.

When you feel great, dare to help someone else feel great too.

When the day has ended, dare to feel as you’ve done your best.

Dare to be the best you can –

At all times, Dare to be!” 

- Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

We can choose to be grateful no matter what

- Dieter F. Vchtdorf

So, thank you...

Ps: There is no relation between the first picture and my post. I just like the picture so much that I want to put in my post.

Day - Afterthought #1

It's been a while since I write in this blog. Actually, it's been more than 1 year. Oh, My God.
Please forgive me for abandoning my own blog.

Well, today, I have some afterthought. Yes, as usual, my own afterthought. It is literally pure from my mind. No one forces me to write about this afterthought.

There is only one way to avoid criticism: do nothing, say nothing, and be nothing (Aristotle).

In my opinion, we live in this world with 7.6 billion people (source: http://www.worldometers.info). What do you expect? Do you think that you live in your own world with the people that you expect to behave?

Wake up, girl/boy..!!

You do not live in your dreams. You do not live in your own world. You might create your own world.
But, people, as a human being, we need each other. We need people to survive.
Once, someone said to me that she/he does not like me.

So what should I do? 

First, I would like to listen to them what they do not like about me. Because I do admit that sometimes I might hurt other people. I would not know if there is no one said to me. Honestly, I would say many thanks to that person. Why? Because it means that she/he still cares about me and want me to become a better person. I have ever told someone that I am not a shaman. I would not know what other people's mind if they do not tell me. I really open-minded to criticism especially in a good way. So please, just tell me.

Well, in my opinion, you are selfish if you just want people to understand you. Why not mutual understanding? Respect each other? If you respect me, of course, I will have some respect for you, too.

One thing, I also dislike is to blame the condition or situation. As you get older, you should be more mature. You might have some experience that other people need not face. But, does it mean that you could do anything and ask people to understand you while you do not respect them? Do you think that people dislike you because of the condition because they are just full of hatred?

In this part, I really suggest you do self-analyze. Is it you or is it something else?
Some people have their own reason to act something. Are you the reason that they do bad things to you? or are they just bunch of crazy people that hate others?

The next part is changing your self into a better person. Not all the criticism is to let you down. Sometimes is to make you become a better person.

Hmmm.. if you do not take the criticism, I think you are just a selfish being.
You want people to understand you while you do not understand other? You want people to accept your bad behaviour while you never try to change?

Wake up girl/boy..

This is real life. If you do not want criticism just do not be one.

*ps: no personal judgement to specific person.

Morning

Good Morning All!!

May today will be better than before!!

Don't forget to smile, then..

Ps: It is the first time that I use my photograph. Don't mind my face though.. :D

Taken #1

Now, I wanna review about this movie. The movie is called Taken.
This is the first movie. Up until now, there are three movies, Taken 1, Taken 2, and Taken 3. Of course, the main actor is the same as previous movie, Liam Neeson as Bryan Mills a retired agent.

Here is a preview from Taken #1

Courtesy to Wikipedia

Well, Taken #1 was released in 2008, which means it was about 8 years ago. Wow. Nice. The story was about Bryan Mills (Liam Neeson) was a retired agent who left the Central Intelligence Agency (CIA). He was divorced and had a daughter named Kim (Maggie Grace). Kim lived with her mother and her stepfather while her father (Bryan Mills) lived alone.

Some day, Kim wanted to travel to Paris with her friends. Her mother asked her to ask permission to Bryan. Finally Kim manages to convince her dad to allow her. Unfortunately, something bad happened to Kim and her friend. While Kim called her father, she witnesses her friend, Kim, was abducted by strange men in the living room. As her father instruction, Kim was hiding in a bedroom, but Bryan, knowing she will be found, informed her to talk her through the situation. Then, Kim was dragged out. She yelled the description of her abductor until she was silenced. Her abductor said to Bryan through phone "Good Luck" then hung the phone.

Bryan was losing his mind and he began to searching her daughter, Kim. He contacted his old friend, Sam (Lelaand Orser), to deduces from the killer description and voice. The abductor was Marko Hoxha, a notorious member and leader of illegal Albanian sex trafficking operations. Sam informed Bryan that he only had 96 hours to save Kim or else Kim will not be found.

Bryan began his travel to Paris and investigated the apartment. Bryan trailed the clues where about Kim. He didn't give the mercy for the villian.

Well for the rest of the ending, I think you supposed to watch it by yourself. This movie was good movie. In this movie we can see that Bryan Mills thought that Kim, her daughter, was his pride and his joy. So he would do anything to save her only daughter.
The genre is action movie. You can see the tactics and the technique that Bryan used for saving his daughter.

The quote I liked the most from this movie is:

"I don't know who you are, but I will find you and I will kill you"

- Bryan Mills

I think that quote is so cool, you threatened back the villain and he did  it! He found the villain and killed all of them with no mercy at all..

Well, as you know, this quote has been used so many times in 9gag or something else (you can see the image below).

Courtesy to Google

*Of course, the sentence will be change due to the purpose of the maker. :D

That's so funny... so, ehem... Well. I don't know who you are. But if you bugs me, i will find you and i will give no mercy to you.. :D

That's all the review

Quote for Today #2

image source: google

I really wish I had so much time to worry about things that are none of my business. 

Quote for Today #1

Good Morning my dear, Adit - kun!!!!

がんばっれよ

Hope today will be better than yesterday!!!!

Words Can Hurt

Probably few of you will think this is a trivial matter. Or maybe the writer is someone who is too emotional or too sensitive. But don’t you think that many people often have this experience? Sometimes misunderstanding caused more by words than action, right? Or isn’t it right that many of fights started from words?

So, it’s true or not that Words Can Hurt in Million Times Worse?

Sometimes, unintentionally we hurt people by words. Even we do that to our dearest people. Words can be more piercing than a knife blade originally. Because we can never take the words that are already been spoken.

With words without us knowing it, we can hurt people. Even people who are very dear to us. The words can be more piercing than a knife blade original. Because the words that we say we will never be able to pull back so spoken.

Words can be a good thing, and could also be a very brutal thing. With words, we can even lose the people whom we love. So be wise in utter.

Think before you speak

Words can hurt in million times worse

Faded

Crashed on the floor when I moved in

This little bungalow with some strange new friends

Stay up too late, and I'm too thin

We promise each other it's 'til the end

Now we're spinning empty bottles

It's the five of us

With pretty eyed boys girls die to trust

I can't resist the day

No, I can't resist the day

Jenny screams out and it's no pose

'Cause when she dances she goes and goes

Beer through the nose on an inside joke

And I'm so excited, I haven't spoken

And she's so pretty, and she's so sure

Maybe I'm more clever than a girl like her

Summer's all in bloom

Summer is ending soon

It's alright and it's nice not to be so alone

But I hold on to your secrets in white houses

Maybe I'm a little bit over my head

I come undone at the things he said

And he's so funny in his bright red shirt

We were all in love and we all got hurt

I sneak into his car's cracked leather seat

The smell of gasoline in the summer heat

Boy, we're going way too fast

It's all too sweet to last

It's alright

And I put myself in his hands

But I hold on to your secrets in white houses

Love, or something ignites in my veins

And I pray it never fades in white houses

My first time, hard to explain

Rush of blood, oh, and a little bit of pain

On a cloudy day, it's more common than you think

He's my first mistake

Maybe you were all faster than me

We gave each other up so easily

These silly little wounds will never mend

I feel so far from where I've been

So I go, and I will not be back here again

I'm gone as the day is fading on white houses

I lied, wrote my injuries all in the dust

In my heart is the five of us

In white houses

And you, maybe you'll remember me

What I gave is yours to keep

In white houses

In white houses

In white houses

White Houses - Vanessa Carlton

I never thought I will say this once again, "I feel so far from where I've been, so I go and I will not be back here again. I'm gone as the day is fading on white houses"

Have you ever thought that maybe you can fit in one place and you can say "Wow that was an unforgettable memories"? But, suddenly something destroys your imagination. All you want to do now is disappear?

Some people say, don't make some mistake or you will regret.

But we will never know it was a mistake until we do that mistake right? So I think that's a mistake if you don't do that mistake.  There is a quote says,

Never regret anything you have done with a sincere affection; nothing is lost that is born of the heart 

- Basil Rathbone

So now, I made some mistakes. Everyone made some mistakes. No body is perfect. Everyone has felt disappointed and let down. So, do I. But the question is, can we overcome it? Or we let our anger, disappointed dominates us? 

Speak when you are angry - and you'll make the best speech you'll ever regret 

- Laurence J. Peter

Now, my regret is I really wish I would never do or say something like that to you. However, I already did it. Yeah for now on, I'll go and I will not be back here again. I'm gone as the day is fading..

x

Keep Calm and Sleep Well

Lately, I've been so busy...
So well, I just wanna say good night. Have a nice dream.. Sleep Tight!!!
Give the best for tomorrow!!!