Night - Afterthought #3

Hmmm... Lately, I've had my inspiration at night. After I took a deep shower (nope, only 10 minutes), after a long commute, and so on, and so on, I felt like aha... I got this... Then, here we are...

This is a story of my life... and once again, only my opinion though. You might have other opinions.

Well, I am gonna talk about the quote below...

Is it true? that:

We buy things we don't need with the money we don't have to impress people we don't like?

Night - Afterthought #2

Sometimes it is so nice to have someone you can rely on. You could depend on. Someone you could talk to. Someone you could share your thoughts. Someone you could complain to. Someone who would defend you. It is really so happy to have that someone.

But, is it going to forever? How long will it take until you realized that you could not rely on someone else except yourself? How long will it take that you realized that you are the only one who can defend yourself?

Someone said (you can google it) that

"never depend on others too much. Because someday you will have to walk alone"

Night - Afterthought #1

Here I am. It is been so long since my latest post. I am glad that I could spare my time to think and write. Tbh I really want to post something on my blog, about my trips, my life, my unimportant thing, my thoughts, my works, many things. So yeah... I am really glad about this time.

I feel that lately, I am not grateful enough or less grateful for what I have had, done, and got.
So that is why I want to be more grateful, I should be grateful, I need to be grateful.

Here are some quotes that I found on google. I think you should know..

When a new day begins, dare to smile gratefully.

When there is darkness, dare to be the first to shine a light.

When there is an injustice, dare to be the first to condemn it.

When something seems difficult, dare to do it anyway.

When life seems to beat you down, dare to fight back.

When there seems to be no hope, dare to find some.

When you’re feeling tired, dare to keep going.

When times are tough, dare to be tougher.

When love hurts you, dare to love again.

When someone is hurting, dare to help them heal.

When another is lost, dare to help them find the way.

When a friend falls, dare to be the first to extend a hand.

When you cross paths with another, dare to make them smile.

When you feel great, dare to help someone else feel great too.

When the day has ended, dare to feel as you’ve done your best.

Dare to be the best you can –

At all times, Dare to be!” 

- Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

We can choose to be grateful no matter what

- Dieter F. Vchtdorf

So, thank you...

Ps: There is no relation between the first picture and my post. I just like the picture so much that I want to put in my post.

Day - Afterthought #1

It's been a while since I write in this blog. Actually, it's been more than 1 year. Oh, My God.
Please forgive me for abandoning my own blog.

Well, today, I have some afterthought. Yes, as usual, my own afterthought. It is literally pure from my mind. No one forces me to write about this afterthought.

There is only one way to avoid criticism: do nothing, say nothing, and be nothing (Aristotle).

In my opinion, we live in this world with 7.6 billion people (source: http://www.worldometers.info). What do you expect? Do you think that you live in your own world with the people that you expect to behave?

Wake up, girl/boy..!!

You do not live in your dreams. You do not live in your own world. You might create your own world.
But, people, as a human being, we need each other. We need people to survive.
Once, someone said to me that she/he does not like me.

So what should I do? 

First, I would like to listen to them what they do not like about me. Because I do admit that sometimes I might hurt other people. I would not know if there is no one said to me. Honestly, I would say many thanks to that person. Why? Because it means that she/he still cares about me and want me to become a better person. I have ever told someone that I am not a shaman. I would not know what other people's mind if they do not tell me. I really open-minded to criticism especially in a good way. So please, just tell me.

Well, in my opinion, you are selfish if you just want people to understand you. Why not mutual understanding? Respect each other? If you respect me, of course, I will have some respect for you, too.

One thing, I also dislike is to blame the condition or situation. As you get older, you should be more mature. You might have some experience that other people need not face. But, does it mean that you could do anything and ask people to understand you while you do not respect them? Do you think that people dislike you because of the condition because they are just full of hatred?

In this part, I really suggest you do self-analyze. Is it you or is it something else?
Some people have their own reason to act something. Are you the reason that they do bad things to you? or are they just bunch of crazy people that hate others?

The next part is changing your self into a better person. Not all the criticism is to let you down. Sometimes is to make you become a better person.

Hmmm.. if you do not take the criticism, I think you are just a selfish being.
You want people to understand you while you do not understand other? You want people to accept your bad behaviour while you never try to change?

Wake up girl/boy..

This is real life. If you do not want criticism just do not be one.

*ps: no personal judgement to specific person.

Morning

Good Morning All!!

May today will be better than before!!

Don't forget to smile, then..

Ps: It is the first time that I use my photograph. Don't mind my face though.. :D