Night - Afterthought #1

Here I am. It is been so long since my latest post. I am glad that I could spare my time to think and write. Tbh I really want to post something on my blog, about my trips, my life, my unimportant thing, my thoughts, my works, many things. So yeah... I am really glad about this time.

I feel that lately, I am not grateful enough or less grateful for what I have had, done, and got.
So that is why I want to be more grateful, I should be grateful, I need to be grateful.

Here are some quotes that I found on google. I think you should know..

When a new day begins, dare to smile gratefully.

When there is darkness, dare to be the first to shine a light.

When there is an injustice, dare to be the first to condemn it.

When something seems difficult, dare to do it anyway.

When life seems to beat you down, dare to fight back.

When there seems to be no hope, dare to find some.

When you’re feeling tired, dare to keep going.

When times are tough, dare to be tougher.

When love hurts you, dare to love again.

When someone is hurting, dare to help them heal.

When another is lost, dare to help them find the way.

When a friend falls, dare to be the first to extend a hand.

When you cross paths with another, dare to make them smile.

When you feel great, dare to help someone else feel great too.

When the day has ended, dare to feel as you’ve done your best.

Dare to be the best you can –

At all times, Dare to be!” 

- Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

We can choose to be grateful no matter what

- Dieter F. Vchtdorf

So, thank you...

Ps: There is no relation between the first picture and my post. I just like the picture so much that I want to put in my post.

Day - Afterthought #1

It's been a while since I write in this blog. Actually, it's been more than 1 year. Oh, My God.
Please forgive me for abandoning my own blog.

Well, today, I have some afterthought. Yes, as usual, my own afterthought. It is literally pure from my mind. No one forces me to write about this afterthought.

There is only one way to avoid criticism: do nothing, say nothing, and be nothing (Aristotle).

In my opinion, we live in this world with 7.6 billion people (source: http://www.worldometers.info). What do you expect? Do you think that you live in your own world with the people that you expect to behave?

Wake up, girl/boy..!!

You do not live in your dreams. You do not live in your own world. You might create your own world.
But, people, as a human being, we need each other. We need people to survive.
Once, someone said to me that she/he does not like me.

So what should I do? 

First, I would like to listen to them what they do not like about me. Because I do admit that sometimes I might hurt other people. I would not know if there is no one said to me. Honestly, I would say many thanks to that person. Why? Because it means that she/he still cares about me and want me to become a better person. I have ever told someone that I am not a shaman. I would not know what other people's mind if they do not tell me. I really open-minded to criticism especially in a good way. So please, just tell me.

Well, in my opinion, you are selfish if you just want people to understand you. Why not mutual understanding? Respect each other? If you respect me, of course, I will have some respect for you, too.

One thing, I also dislike is to blame the condition or situation. As you get older, you should be more mature. You might have some experience that other people need not face. But, does it mean that you could do anything and ask people to understand you while you do not respect them? Do you think that people dislike you because of the condition because they are just full of hatred?

In this part, I really suggest you do self-analyze. Is it you or is it something else?
Some people have their own reason to act something. Are you the reason that they do bad things to you? or are they just bunch of crazy people that hate others?

The next part is changing your self into a better person. Not all the criticism is to let you down. Sometimes is to make you become a better person.

Hmmm.. if you do not take the criticism, I think you are just a selfish being.
You want people to understand you while you do not understand other? You want people to accept your bad behaviour while you never try to change?

Wake up girl/boy..

This is real life. If you do not want criticism just do not be one.

*ps: no personal judgement to specific person.

Morning

Good Morning All!!

May today will be better than before!!

Don't forget to smile, then..

Ps: It is the first time that I use my photograph. Don't mind my face though.. :D

Gossip Girls ~ Marginal Group

No... No.. No.. I'm sorry.. It was not about the TV Series called Gossip Girl that was started by "XOXO Gossip Girl". It was about me and my friends caught up somethings that we missed each other.

It was happen last Sunday, June 30th 2016 (so for someone that had ever said what I was doing every Sunday was meeting him you were totally wrong *****)

Here we are..

From Left to Right: Meili, Mayanti, Ajeng, Me

 It was been a while since we met last year or two year? Well I didn't remember exactly when we last met each other. As you know it was difficult for us to arrange the meeting because we've been separated and sort of busy our selves.

But finally we met!!!! Yeaaaay!

Finally, we could have breakfasting together before we'd been busy again. It was really a long time. I miss you guys. We've been friends since Senior High School (we were classmates and we were the marginal group XD). So here we were the marginal group had a meeting in Bekasi, our planet.

Of course as same as other girls we chatted up, well we were gossip as well.. XD
The funny thing was that we gossip after adzan because we didn't want to ruin our fasting. Silly right. Yeah at least, we gossiped after breakfasting.

I was and am really happy to see you guys. Actually I'm so speechless right now that I couldn't even write how happy I am.
Well, let me just write about the activities we had.

From Left to Right: Ajeng, Mayanti, Meili, Me

The fact was I was the one who caught up the things with them. Because I've been so far from them. Two of them were in the same college (different major) and one of them in other college. So here we were from Senior High School 1 Bekasi to UNPAD, UGM, and UI. But those didn't blocked us to gossiping others. XD
At first, we promised to meet at the avenue at Fish and Co around 4:30 PM. But, unfortunately there was no space for four of us so we had to find another place. And we stranded at Fiesta Steak. The queue for ordering the food was so long but fortunately we got seated and got our order.
Soon after the breakfasting, we were gossiping about our friends, our lives, our loves, and so on. Sorry for bothering the other customer because sometimes we got so excited.

Then after we had a fully stomach, we didn't forget to pray. Just the same with the restaurants the Prayer Room also crowded. Because of I wasn't praying due of girl's period, I was waiting for them outside the Prayer Room. Meanwhile I was waiting, I met other senior high school mates who actually I didn't remember their names (I'm so sorry for forgetting their names).

After a while, We were thirsty and decided to have some drinks. Lucky for us, the places didn't get to full like before (maybe due to praying time). Because of the cafe had only a few seated table, we could choose wherever we wanted to be seated. In addition, we changed the seat three times. Then, we chatted until 8:30 PM because we had some other arrangements.

Well, that was my story.
Of course we do take a wefie... here they are..

From Left to Right: Meili, Mayanti, Ajeng, Me

From Left to Right: Meili, Mayanti, Ajeng, Me

From Right to Left: Ajeng, Me, Mayanti, Meili

I miss you guys.. See you next meeting

Question for you

One thought in my mind.. I've got this thought a few days later but i've been busy since. I wrote this through my mobile phone.

Have you ever questions anything that you dont get the answer yet? Well, that's my situation.. Up until now, I dont get the answer to make me understand.

Do you really need to impose even if he / she doesn't want it anymore?
What do you wish for? Are you that happy to see others suffer? Just because you dont get the happiness you ruin others?

What do you expect to?
You think that what you are doing are right things to do. But the truth is you make some horrible mistake. At that time hate wont grow. But, days by days as you push us to do what you think are rights, the hatred will grow. Sometimes I pity you for what you are doing.

There is a proverb that says sometimes holding on gives you more damage than let it go.

You said that what you are doing is to make the things right. Are you sure? Dont you just think what you are doing is based on your ego? Your selfish?

Can you just let us go? Or are you just a selfish *****? Trust me. Now, I really pity you for what you are doing. You wont ever get what you want. It's already ended since. Just keep holding what you think yours and I will keep what I think mine.

See you next post.
Cause the haters just gonna hate